Is putting on makeup in front of your father or brother a problem? The short answer: opinions differ — it’s permitted by many but some scholars urge caution if it could stir temptation
Wearing make-up for non-mahram men is forbidden. This ruling is based on Qur’anic verses and Islamic traditions, and its purpose is to preserve women’s modesty and chastity and to prevent temptation and corruption in society. However, regarding wearing make-up in front of mahram men, there are different opinions.
Wearing make-up in front of mahram men is not objectionable provided that this act does not cause temptation, corruption, or lead them to sin. By “leading to sin” the meaning is not only that they might seek to commit adultery; rather it primarily means that seeing you in that state could arouse them and lead their conduct to sinful acts. There are different views on this matter:
Some jurists believe that a woman wearing make-up in front of mahram relatives such as her father, brother, uncle, etc., is permissible because these men are mahram and marriage between them is impossible.
Other jurists hold that even wearing make-up for mahram relatives is disliked (makrūh), because it may stimulate desire.
Therefore, the cautious (precautionary) position is that a Muslim woman should avoid striking or attention-seeking make-up even in front of her mahram relatives.
A mahram is someone with whom marriage is forbidden.
Make-up that attracts the attention of non-mahram men or that stimulates sexual desire is considered attention-seeking make-up.
If the purpose of make-up is pleasing one’s spouse, there is no problem; however, it should not attract the attention of others.