“Princess Charming” Nessi's Brave Confession: She Couldn’t Let Go of Her Ex-Wife Ina at First

A Confession That Surprised Fans

When Vanessa Borck, better known as Nessi, stepped into the spotlight as the new Princess Charming, viewers expected romance, drama, and self-discovery. What they did not expect was the raw vulnerability Nessi revealed in a candid YouTube interview with host Paula from La Polcevita. There, the 28-year-old influencer confessed that at the beginning of her journey on the reality dating show, she was not simply looking for love—she was looking for a replacement for her ex-wife Ina.

"At the beginning, I was looking for a second Ina," Nessi admitted, her voice heavy with emotion.

The Shadow of a Great Love

Nessi’s relationship with Ina was not just any romance—it was her first great love. The couple had been together for eight years, married, and even had a child. Their bond was so profound that March 20th, the date they first met, remained etched in Nessi’s heart. Coincidentally, it was also on March 20th—nine years later—that Nessi entered the Princess Charming villa, carrying memories of a love she still hadn’t fully left behind.

This emotional overlap became the backdrop of her journey, shaping her expectations and the way she approached new connections on the show.

Searching for the Past in the Present

Nessi confessed that she was unconsciously searching for someone who mirrored Ina. She wanted immediate closeness, instant intimacy, and the sense of security she once had.

"I wanted to have a 24/7 person right away," Nessi explained. "I wanted to move in together right away, like with Ina. Because I found it so beautiful."

Her openness struck a chord with fans, many of whom saw their own struggles reflected in her story. For Nessi, the challenge was not only about finding new love but also about redefining what love should mean after such a formative relationship.

Learning to Let Go

The journey on Princess Charming ultimately forced Nessi to confront her past. Surrounded by women who were each hoping to win her heart, she began to realize that clinging to the idea of a “second Ina” was holding her back.

For the first time, she questioned her own patterns—her need for instant intensity and the urge to recreate what once was. Through this process, she began to let go, opening herself up to new possibilities and different kinds of connections.

Breaking New Ground

What makes Nessi’s story especially striking is the fact that her relationship with Ina was not only her first love but also her only intimate experience up until that point. Entering the Princess Charming villa, she was stepping into uncharted territory—dating in public, opening her heart again, and allowing herself to be vulnerable in front of an audience.

Despite this, Nessi’s natural charm and authenticity quickly won over both the contestants and the viewers. Her willingness to share deeply personal truths has set her apart from previous stars of the show.

Fans React

Reactions to Nessi’s confession have been overwhelmingly supportive. Many praised her courage for speaking openly about her past and her struggle to move on. Others admired her honesty, noting that her journey reflects the real complexities of love after heartbreak.

On social media, fans flooded her with messages like “This is why we love you, Nessi—you’re real” and “Your story gives me hope to start over too.”

What Comes Next

As the season continues, fans are eager to see how Nessi’s newfound perspective shapes her decisions. Will she be able to fully embrace a new chapter and find lasting love? Or will the weight of her past continue to influence her journey?

One thing is certain: Nessi has already transformed. By acknowledging her emotional struggles and learning to let go, she has taken the first step toward true healing—and perhaps toward the love she’s always been searching for.