SAEDNEWS: A therapist has recently identified five hidden signs of childhood trauma that individuals may be unaware of, even as adults.
According to SAEDNEWS, Logan Cohen, a marriage and family therapist, explains that signs like difficulty standing up for oneself and experiencing "imposter syndrome" are indicators of emotional neglect during childhood. According to Cohen, emotional neglect is often referred to as "invisible trauma" because its effects are subtle. It occurs when caregivers fail to provide the emotional support, validation, and attention necessary during a child's early years.
Behaviors such as dismissing or downplaying a child's feelings and avoiding affectionate gestures, like hugging or kissing, are examples of this neglect. These experiences are categorized under "Adverse Childhood Experiences" (ACEs). Emotional neglect can be just as harmful as other forms of abuse, leaving long-lasting effects on an individual’s psychological and emotional development.
People who experienced emotional neglect as children may struggle to assert themselves as adults, even when faced with disrespect.
Cohen explains that these individuals were often ignored or rejected when they tried to express their needs as children. These painful experiences create a deep-seated belief that speaking up leads to negative outcomes. As a result, they avoid voicing their needs to protect themselves from potential rejection or conflict.
Another hidden sign is feeling uneasy or uncomfortable when someone genuinely asks about their well-being.
Cohen notes that this behavior often results in distancing themselves from others and subtly signaling that such questions should not be asked.
These individuals may have grown up without learning how to express their emotions properly because their caregivers dismissed or ignored their feelings. Consequently, when others show genuine concern, it feels unfamiliar and unsettling.
Victims of childhood trauma may struggle with imposter syndrome, a condition marked by feelings of inadequacy and believing others are always superior.
This psychological state stems from damaged self-esteem. Adverse childhood experiences, such as neglect, can diminish self-worth and lead to feelings of shame and unworthiness that persist into adulthood.
Another sign is difficulty sharing emotions, often because these individuals don’t know how to identify or process their feelings.
Children raised in environments where their emotions are ignored not only learn to suppress their feelings to avoid negative reactions but also fail to develop the skills needed to express themselves effectively. This emotional deficit often manifests as challenges in adult relationships.
Lastly, a sense of loneliness paired with an inability to connect with others can indicate unresolved childhood trauma.
Cohen explains that this can lead to isolation and withdrawal in adulthood.
When a child's attempts to connect with their caregivers are ignored, it instills a fear of rejection and a lack of trust in others. This fear leads to the belief that relationships only bring pain and abandonment, making them prefer solitude over potential emotional risks.
The long-term impacts of these adverse childhood experiences can be mitigated through therapy. Professional help allows individuals to process their past and move toward becoming emotionally healthy adults.
Therapy provides the tools to break free from the cycle of trauma, build meaningful connections, and develop self-worth.
