If You're in the Early Stages of Marriage, Make Sure to Pay attention to these 3 Things

Sunday, March 16, 2025  Read time1 min

According to the Family Magazine Service of SaedNews, married life requires care, and certain mistakes in the early stages can lead to its destruction. Some couples make common mistakes early in their marriage that they realize years later were errors.

If You're in the Early Stages of Marriage, Make Sure to Pay attention to these 3 Things

In this section, we present 3 mistakes in the early stages of marriage. If you're making these mistakes and are looking for solutions, keep reading.

Excessive Intimacy with the Spouse's Family

One of the mistakes couples make early in marriage is becoming excessively close to the spouse’s family. Over time, this excessive intimacy can lead to a loss of privacy and a lack of boundaries between you and your spouse's family.

Solution:

Your behavior with your spouse’s family should be different from how you behave with your friends. Inappropriate jokes, using light-hearted language, mocking, unnecessary laughter, etc., should be avoided when interacting with your spouse’s family. Try to respect your spouse’s family while maintaining intimacy, and distance yourself from the belief that "my spouse's family is my family."

Focusing Too Much on the Spouse

Many people forget about themselves after marriage and do everything they can to help their spouse progress. However, will your spouse appreciate your sacrifices? Focusing only on your spouse’s goals, advancing them, and sacrificing too much for them is a mistake. It will only lead to distance between the couple and a lack of self-esteem.

Solution:

Don't forget yourself in life. Have goals for yourself and invest in yourself instead of only investing in your spouse. If you’re only focusing on your spouse’s career and sacrificing everything, including all your money, can you guarantee that your spouse will appreciate you when they succeed? So, don’t do this and don’t sacrifice yourself. Set goals for yourself and prioritize them, allowing both you and your spouse to help each other grow.

Not Defending Boundaries

Everyone has boundaries that, if ignored, cause distress. Failing to defend your boundaries in the early stages of marriage is a mistake many couples face. If your spouse’s family disrespects you and your family, visits you without notice, takes away your freedom of choice, or interferes in every little thing, and you tolerate all of this without setting clear boundaries, it will undoubtedly lead to emotional distress.

Solution:

To maintain the proper boundaries with your spouse’s family, set clear rules. Setting boundaries does not mean disrespecting your spouse’s family. Act politely, respectfully, and in a kind and patient manner, but defend your limits. Resolve your issues well and don't allow others to interfere.


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