SAEDNEWS: Each of us has probably encountered situations in life where we felt the need to showcase our abilities and skills and prove ourselves to others. In this section, we will talk about how to prove ourselves and our abilities to others. Stay with us.
According to SAEDNEWS, Each of us has likely come across people who display their capabilities and skills to others or are striving hard to develop unique abilities and acquire special skills so that others recognize them as worthy individuals.
The pursuit and effort to prove one’s abilities, skills, and worth to others can happen to anyone, regardless of their economic and social status, age, or gender—it is not exclusive to certain individuals. For example, a young man might want to prove to others that he can take care of his family in the absence of his father; a girl may strive to show that she is as skilled in cycling and driving as her brothers; a disabled child may believe that their disability cannot hinder their success and is determined to prove their capabilities to others by planning and fulfilling a bright future; a student may wish to demonstrate their academic abilities to their professor in order to gain their trust; and so on.
The reasons for the effort to prove oneself to others can vary, such as: a reaction to being humiliated, a response to a painful incident in any stage of life, especially childhood, the fear of being rejected, trying to hide personal flaws, being compared to others, the desire for progress, and the need to be seen by others. Individuals may attempt to prove themselves to a family member, relative, classmate, teacher, and others.
This kind of effort can have positive effects on a person's life. For example, it can lead to a strong desire for personal growth, providing significant energy and motivation to move towards success. It can help individuals set goals for their lives and plan to achieve them. It can also encourage individuals to develop specific abilities and skills, motivating them to work towards their cultivation.
While striving to prove oneself may have some benefits, it can also have harmful and sometimes irreparable consequences. Often, an individual who is focused on proving themselves to others might become overly concerned with external factors and what others prefer. As a result, they may neglect self-awareness, self-reflection, and their own interests and goals. They might spend years of their energy and effort on a path that is more focused on gaining the approval of others, only to realize later that this path has not fulfilled any of their true life goals. Consequently, they may not feel successful or satisfied with the outcomes of this path and might not have the energy or opportunity to start a new journey.
Moreover, the desire to be seen by others can create anxiety and psychological pressure, making it a major source of stress for the individual. They might place excessive focus on a particular aspect of their life that they want others to notice, while neglecting other aspects of their life. Sometimes, even if they dedicate a great deal of attention (often excessively) to one area, they still feel that it hasn't received enough attention from others. This can lead to a kind of obsession with showcasing their abilities in that specific area of their life.
Therefore, to avoid the negative effects of excessively proving oneself to others, an individual should pay careful attention to both external and internal factors and maintain a balance so that by focusing too much on external factors, they don’t lose sight of their own characteristics, interests, and goals.
